When a child is struggling, one technique is quick. It’s easy. It cost no money. Yet it skirts any sense of personal responsibility – while undermining the spirit… Read more “Blame the Parent”
Category: Triangulation
Why Talk Therapy Fails
Oh, the insanity! Over the years numerous mental health professionals engaged my children in traditional talk therapy – even after I raised concerns. They somehow thought the… Read more “Why Talk Therapy Fails”
When Triangulation Rules – Part 2
Upon being adopted, my oldest son wanted to bond with me. Yet he didn’t understand the give-and-take of relationships – nor was he willing let down his… Read more “When Triangulation Rules – Part 2”
Triangulation – The Art of Strangulating Family Relationships
I never forgot the day that a therapist made me vulnerable in front of my children. “Your father’s not always right – just like you. When he… Read more “Triangulation – The Art of Strangulating Family Relationships”